I am only going to say this once. I am no super model!!! If looks are all you care about, then don't bother me! I'm so sick of men liking what they hear and the moment they see a photo they make up excuses. I am a big girl so if that offends you then don't messege me. Even if there isn't chemistry, there is friendship. I insist you be honest otherwise you are wasting our time. Today I made the mistake of sending my photo to a guy who thought I sounded great until that photo. If you want eye candy move along, I only have the old fashioned homemade kind. People get a grip and realise beauty is only skin deep and it doesn't last forever. I am too old for these silly games. I am honest, loyal, and trustworthy that is what should matter. Also no married men! Only men that have an interest in the subject for which this Web Site exists in first place.