Just what the headline says - I need a firm handed old fashioned man and a red bottom - red all over my upturned backside. You should be older than myself, adopt a stern and yet caring and understanding attitude, and guide me by taking my hand in yours and leading me to the bedroom, where you'll sit on the edge of the bed and tell me to lower my jeans and panties. Have me change into my loose fitting pajamas or just guide me over your knee right then and there and spank me until I cry. Genuinely cry. I need to sob during a spanking.