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seeking a woman who enjoys giving discreet regular spankings. sex is totally up to her

my friends would all say that I am fun to be around. I am outgoing ,with a good sense of humor. I do not take myself to seriously. I am a friendly person. I am courteous and will hold the door for just about anyone at a store. I am old fashioned. I treat women as they should be treated,ie. with courtesy and old fashioned chivalry. kindness and respect are paramount to me.i believe that woman civilize men ;an are actually the smarter sex. who is usually the CEO of the hosehold?,
I am safe,sane,non smoker,non drinker and I do not do any drugs;but I do not mind if my partner drinks socially or does 420.i am totally disease free. I have never has an std. I am not a young man;but I have been told that I am attractive for an older gent.if you should choose to meet and hopefully play with me ;you will noy be disappointed,

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Affair Preferences

Describe your favorite affair fantasyregular,2-3 meetings per week,with a woman whose desires mirror my own
Does your partner know?No
How often does your spouse leave you alone?i can usually get away for 3-4 hrs.,in the afterno

Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?The woods,in a car.
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?in a parking lot at a restaurant during the afternoon.


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGerman
Height168 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureEyes
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
Employment StatusRetired
Annual income$100,000 - $250,000
Job TitleRetired Atty.

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchA woman who is a kind and caring person,who enjoys administering spankings on a regular basis.she should not only iunderstand her Domme role;but also the importance of aftercare. a woman who has no problem with the fact that I am married and understands and is okay with discreet , and hopefully ,long term relationship.
Whether or not sex is involved is entirely up to her. She should spank me because she enjoys it;or to relieve her stress,
Our first dateWe might meet at a public place and share a lunch or a cup of coffee,and see if we just might be a match. If we are great,if not .we go our separate ways with no hard feelings.


FetishesCrossdressing, Cuckolding, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Voyeurism

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/M/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Adult theaters, Adult book stores, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

"Off Limits":underage,scat,blood,needles,anal penetration

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Moderate with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
I like to wear:I do not have any particular preferences as to what clothing i would wear to be spanked;but i am completely willing to wear whatever pleases her.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I relish in regular discipline
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
I like to wear:Casual straight wear
Ideal session:i arrive at her place or her hotel room. i knock,she tells me to enter. when i enter she tells me to get on my knees;and kiss her legs. the she tells me to undress. i undress and then she asks me what i want her to use on me. i make a choice;but she over rules me and tells me what she is going to use. she tells me where her implements are and tells me to fetch her choice of spanking implement. i do so and she tells me to take the position she wants me in and proceeds to spank me for her pleasure. she continues to spank me until i am sweating and squirming;but i do not use the safe word yet. i only use the safe word when i absolutely cannot take anymore. afer that she is sitting on the couch and tells me to come over to her and cradles my head and comforts me and tells me that i will be allright ;and that she cares about me. she holds me and shooshes me as a woman wouls a child whom she has just punished;and tells me that everything is okay.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:I am seeking a fundom,not a findom. i would love to arrive at her place and be ordered to undress she punishes my ass;and then tells me to lie on my back. then she sits on my face ,allowing me to breathe;but ordering me to service her pussy and her ass. i do everything that she requires,not wanting more punishment. she may or may not depending on her mood,allow me to cum. other than serviceing her orally there is no sexual contact.