New here? Sign Up Have an account?

Hedonistic and slightly eccentric post middle aged man, seeking submissive lady or (why not) ladies.

Hi ladies

I live near to Bath on the border between Wiltshire and Somerset (England). I am 57 years old. I like younger ladies but also those my own age. I Also like the arts, music, reading, comedy, films, anything that makes me laugh. I am quite intelligent (happy to take any test required, (just joking).

Very polite but also very open minded. Come on girls, one of the few things I don't do is bight.

Looking for uncomplicated sex but if it leeds to more that is fine too. Very discrete. I hate dates but would meet most ladies for coffee or whatever (on the understanding that it is not a date!).

Sign Up 100% FREE to Get In Touch

Join Free Today

Swinging Preferences

Travel:within 20 miles
Entertain at home:Sometimes

Affair Preferences

Describe your favorite affair fantasyfairly normal BDSM fantasy. Indoors and very discrete but group or party situations not quite out of the question.

Varies forms of training and torture, Spanking, crops, whips, maybe the cain. Followed by rough sex and after care. I have lots of other ideas such as hot waxing.

I think that I could play either of two rolls: The cruel bully. Or the kind of dom who rubs the girls back, kisses her and explains why it is necessary to complete the punishment. (I slightly prefer the first).
How often does your spouse leave you alone?At the moment I am free and single.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageBritish
BuildA few extra pounds
Height170 cm
Eye ColorBlack
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthNeck length
Facial HairShaved
Body ArtNone

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Job TitleArtist

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Passiveness
Our first dateI hate dates. We are just getting to know each other over coffee. Having said that there is a quite nice walk along the canal, and there is actualy a maze where, I think, no one ever goes!

BDSM Preferences

My role isDominant
I am seekingA sub
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
My most pleasurable encounter wasA spanking party. Poor girl took over 100 strokes on her ass, using various implements. Went a few times, but it was very expensive. She was kind enough to describe me as a natural.

Fetishes

FetishesOther

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkI've never tried it

Sexual Interests

"Off Limits":Switching!!! feaces, blood. Water sports: give but not receive. Must use a condom and a safe word. Public.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Master-Mistress / Slave Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
I like to wear:Restraints and pegs and clamps. I will find a use for most items of furniture.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Shoes, Belt, Other