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There is a multitude of assholes in this world and in this lifestyle, and I strive not to join that elite group! I'm simply a good guy (except when I'm bad) who happens to enjoy kink and having fun! I am liberal and non-religious.
I'm not in search of perfection - I certainly am not that myself. Wabi-sabi is the Japanese term for that which is perfect not in spite of its imperfections, but because of them. That is what my eye is drawn to.
While I've been in the lifestyle for over 17 years now, I haven't been associated with a group or club in quite some time. That said I'd like to get to know more of my fellow Asheville/Hendersonville area kinksters again! I learned a great deal in my former groups through demos, mentoring, and friendly advice - SSC, respect, and how a true Dom should treat a submissive - with consideration, respect, and a firm hand. I'm always curious and continue to learn. A real Dom never breaks his toys. So many Doms take themselves so seriously. Don't expect that with this Dom. Laughter and humor are often excellent indicators of intellect. Intelligence and humor attract me. I require those from myself and in those I choose to associate with.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height178 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorLight brown
Hair LengthNeck length
Facial HairFull beard
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Our first dateA mutally agreed on public place where everyone feels safe. Sharing a pint is always nice!

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA sub
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Physical humiliation, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesExhibitionism, Voyeurism

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Group sex with swapping
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:All of the above and more!
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Underage, scat, blood, non-consent

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position
Include sex and orgasm:Always
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to something outside in a safe area
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse