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SWM 42yo 6’1 230lbs ddf and lots of experience in DD lifestyle and spanking scene. Ultimately looking for someone who i can explore a domestic discipline relationship with. I believe in managing negative behavior with humiliating spankings, sentence writing, uncomfortable time outs, forced exercise, extra chores, mouth soaping, enema retention. These are all methods I have used in the past for training subs.

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Sex Preferences

I preferTop / Versatile
I'm aBear, Cub, Chub, Chubby Chaser
DemeanorAverage
HIV StatusNegative

Swinging Preferences

Swinging Level:Full Swap Couple, Totally Open
Seeking:Full Swap Couple, Totally Open, Full Swap Couple, Same Room Only, Soft Swing Couple, Touching or Oral, Soft Swing Couple, Same Room Only, Bisexual Couple, Single Male
Travel:Can travel anywhere
Entertain at home:Sometimes
Enjoy attending:Swinger vacation resorts, Swinger parties, Nude beaches

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:The beach, the woods
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:Im not risky, im not impulsive. Logical and careful here.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageIrish
BuildStocky
Height185 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyMunicipal / Law Enforcement
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000

Looking For

I prefer:Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchI will know when I find them. I’m not a big believer in perfection. Just something to strive for
Our first dateAnything

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA relationship
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Cross dressing, Depilation / shaving, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Physical humiliation, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Sexual Activities

Most partners at once:Threesome M/M/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Swapping parties, Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Never
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood, Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:I like to make my sub dress up sometimes for extra humiliation. I use chairs, stools and a small bench, the bed and shower
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Cane, Switch (rod), Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:No limits