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Middle aged, "beautiful" woman in a light BDSM relationship seeking a lady to play with..

Forgive me if this is disrespectful, but I'll be totally blunt so that we don't waste each other's time if we're not compatible.
I'm able to so completely trust a man to do what's best for me and to do what's right and to direct me to do what he believes is right, that even when I don't know what's going on or I'm not convinced his way is right I can still follow his lead and submit to his correction.
Does that interest you, or are you someone who yearns to be owned and humiliated and abused so that every nice thing he says and every little thing she does to take care of you leaves you swooning and sucking his dick or kissing her feet? Cause that isn't us at ALL. We respect each other and those we interact with and ask only for the same treatment in return.

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My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?Public sex isn't my thing period.
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?Family bathroom, parents' living room while they were asleep in their bedroom

Appearance

BuildAverage
Height5' 7" (170 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureEyes
Body ArtScarred
Health ConditionDepression
Bra size38 / 85
Cup sizeC
My attractiveness:Average

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

Annual income$25,000 - $50,000

Looking For

Must haveHumor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
My perfect matchA sub who is willing to play with both a male and female, watch and potentially join in some sexual play. Age 25-40, no taller than me (5'7") and a healthy weight (under 150).
Our first dateMeet and greet, getting to know each other and discuss our goals and plans over a drink or meal or during an enjoyable public event. Either the three of us or just us ladies the first time.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byDomination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSwitch
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyFood play, Power exchange, Spanking, Voyeurism
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasHad a shot and a shower, then he spanked my behind until it was very warm, taking short breaks to delve into my womanhood and keep me focused on the pleasure. Afterwards he and I did it doggy style. He rubbed lotion on me and then we cuddled and talked.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Once a week
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isNot my thing
Sex toys:Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Including but not limited to:
Anal sex, heavy bondage and S&M, groups, unwanted sexual advances, belittling degrading and abuse. We are both respectful and expect the same in return.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyWatching in real life some of the scenes I enjoy when watching porn, experimenting with F/F play and spanking, having an audience while playing and pleasing my man.
Fantasy sex partner:Healthy, pretty woman with a similar build or slighter, who enjoys being a sub and likes to experiment with light BDSM.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Moderate with hand or implement
Role:I'm open to experimenting
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, The Closure / Forgiveness
I like to wear:I am not personally very experienced in role play and props, but he is. We're also willing to accommodate you to an extent. Will discuss.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Bent under the arm
Implement:Hand, Hairbrush, Plastic Bottles, Newspapers, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Stinging