I am a punk feminist anarchist who has hippy leanings and cares a bit too much about the world around me, especially when it comes to the critters with whom we share this planet.

I am polyamorous. For me, being poly is all about honesty, communication and keeping each other safe. I’ve also been learning more about Relationship Anarchy & that seems to fit my life pretty well too.

I've been with my mate for almost 20 years. She's my bestie & my HLM. (Hetero-Lifemate - think Jay & Silent Bob, The Odd Couple, Lavern & Shirley or Bo & Kenzie from Lost Girl...) Basically, she's my life partner who just so happens to be straight.

Physically, I am fat, somewhat short (5' 3"), relatively healthy, have ever changing hair color, and lots of tattoos.

As far as sexual identity goes, I’m Queer, Pansexual Bisexual... Saphiosexual comes close because what's between a person's ears matters more to me than what's between their legs. But kindness and a good heart often matter more to me than a big brain. Labels aside, I'm basically very picky about the individual, without caring quite so much about the packaging. Also, I take my time so if you're looking for a quick fling, unless I'm in festival mode (which means I'd most likely be at a festival), it's probably not gonna happen.

As far as gender identity goes, I’m still figuring this shit out & probably will be the rest of my life. I come across female & often default to she, her pronouns, but that’s more laziness than anything. I don’t feel that I inwardly fit what others see a woman as, but I’m definitely not a man. Agender, genderfluid, or gender-queer fit how I feel inside me better... I think.
One of my favorite quotes from Trainspotting, “1,000 years from now there will be no guys and no girls, just wankers. Sounds great to me.”
Perhaps quoting a fictional heroine junkie for part of my life philosophy isn’t the best idea, but it sure does sum up how I feel. ;)

Spiritually, I'm an eclectic Witch & identify as Pagan. I'm an animist & lunarly loony.

Beyond kink, I have many passions and interests. I'm a reader, love libraries, taking care of my pets, help others with their pets, into animal rescue, am a vegetarian, enjoy exploring nature, finding random artwork, making terrible puns, crafting and arting, swimming, watching movies at home, playing with pets, visiting wildlife sanctuaries, checking out tattoos, running events for fun and profit, camping, walking, hiking, discovering delicious eateries, being goofy and so much more. My first love is writing. I often have "story brain".

Currently, I’m in Grad school & it’s as life consuming as advertised.

Kinkwise, I've tried lots of different things and I am technically a switch, but I haven't been looking to indulge my sub-side recently. Will this change? Who knows! Chaos reigns! (Or is that rains?) ;)
Sex is not of primary importance to me. I do love to kiss and cuddle and scratch and smack and bite, but the big O is not necessarily the objective. Anticipation is fun, being immersed in each moment is better!
Spank-wise, since this is a spanking site, I'm a more of a top, but a switch & kind of hate that there isn't an option here for switches. I enjoy discipline for actual and pretend infractions. I'm also a fan of the snuggle-struggle! ;)

I loathe passivity. For the love of guacamole, please have opinions you're willing to share!

I believe life is ridiculous and laughter is wonderful and it's good to question things.