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Looking for a caring, loving domestic discipline relationship

Young male who has been into spanking since my teens. Former bottom who is now only looking to spank, looking for domestic discipline relationship. Have been the recipient of many spankings from both men and women other the years. I feel my bottom days are behind me(no spanking puns intended). I know first hand the fear, anticipation, humiliation, pain that comes with getting spanked.

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My Trampling Preferences

Do you like being bonded while trampled?Sometimes

My Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Receiving
How much Strapon can you handle?Everything!

My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?Anywhere there is a chance to be caught in the act
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?On a public beach in the bushes, laying on a ant hill i didn't see where I was bitten several times but was worth it.


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageIrish
Height5' 8" (173 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
My attractiveness:Attractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyConstruction / Craftsman
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Empathy, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchYounger female 18-37 who is looking to be spanked and possibly a relationship that involves spanking. Also looking for play partners for non sexual platonic spankings who are just looking for friends to spank them nothing more than that. Kinda like dancing together but with ass pain.
Our first dateWalk in the park and coffee. Talk about spanking and dating.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA relationship
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Femdom, Food play, Foot / shoe worship, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Mummification, Physical humiliation, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Tickling games, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera
My most pleasurable encounter wasHostage party(consensual non consensual bdsm party) where myself the only guy hostage and 8 other women where hostages and there where 10 tops both men and women hostage takers. And the nine of us where taken to a dungeon and where lined up, stripped, ye


FetishesMedical / Enema, Trampling, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a month
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Raves, Intimate gatherings in my home, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Fruits/veggies, Strap-ons
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Anything that involves bodily fluids. Kids, animals, permanent damage. Hitting anywhere above collar bone. Personal verbal humiliation (verbal humiliation needs to be done the right way and calling your partner fat, ugly, worthless or stupid is not sexy a

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyBeing in a domestic discipline relationship with a female spankee who is a spanko.
Fantasy sex partner:I don't watch porn anymore and don't have a unrealistic view about women. Any young women who likes me for me and vise versa and wants to be a kinky relationship would be my ultimate fantasy sex partner

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
I like to wear:Depends on the situation. Rope play and funishment spankings, yes. Real punishment spanking, no
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Plastic Bottles, Newspapers, Shoes, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Response:Pouting / Crying
Pain level:Stinging

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I enjoy the occasional beating
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners

Foot Fetish Preferences

My fetish role:Sub - Sucking toes & feet
Relationship:Foot play at foot night parties
My interests:Trampling, Foot smelling, Face standing, Foot smothering, Forced foot worship
Foot size:Medium 7-8