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I enjoy reversing things up a little....

I guess I can best be described as a well-educated, open-minded, keep-fit guy who has always had more curiosity and sense of exploration than was probably good for him, lol! We're all going to end up in the rocking chair on the nursing home porch some day - or worse - but I'll be damned if I'm going to be wishing and regretting that I didn't try something - this.... that.... or whatever! I don't keep a bucket list, lol, it would be entirely too confining. (Much as I enjoy being confined... ) I intend to try it all, and I'm a firm believer in the "Feel good? Do it again" school of life..

I'm looking for a playmate, a fellow partner in exploration, nothing serious such as an LTR.. I just want to please a lady in any way she wishes (lol, as in *any* way).. and hopefully be on the receiving end of activities that also entertain her.

My ideal Is a lovely, strong and independent woman, loves to take complete charge and control in the bedroom, but is not bound by rigidity or the details of protocol, curiosity guides her, she's willing to experiment, explore, answer those "I wonder what happens if I..." questions.

Her looks and age don't matter - her brain entirely does! I'm used to a high level of intellectual conversation and relating, if she is sapiosexual we are going to get along fine!

For me, age is truly a state of mind that you either let happen to you, or *not*. I'm far from 45 at this point, but I'm also far from 95, the number on the screen is just something to help folks with their searches... if the actual number matters to you, um, viewer discretion advised, content may be disturbing, we're probably not in the same box, lol! It's more about how you think, how you enjoy, how you explore, what you can still do, are you still as curious as ever? So I really don't care about age, or for that matter, looks.

I'm interested in lifestyle only. Perhaps you are new to this kind of fun - You've read a little, you've watched, and you've found that the kinkier things have tickled your curiosity deep inside.. maybe you've always wanted to peg a man, slide a sound up inside his cock, drop some hot wax, wire up his balls, see what it feels like to swing a whip hard on his ass... maybe you've decided it's not even a want, but a need. If so, you would find me safe, sane, and experienced enough for you to learn how much fun you can have. But, perhaps you are already experienced, you've done many of these things for a long time - Great! I am sure we both have new things to discover, new explorations, I know that my boundaries have expanded substantially the past few years, and I am far from finished in pushing my limits further and further. You would also find me safe and sane, and with very few hard limits.

There is so much fun and laughter to be had in life, why would you want to pass it up?

Thank you Ma'am, looking forward to meeting you!

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My Public Sex preferences

Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?Lol... storefront on Frenchmen Street, New Orleans


Relationship StatusSingle
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsAlone
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
Job TitleInterests: Art, History, Philosophy,

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Wit, Thoughtfullness

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
I am seekingA mistress
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, All of the above and more!

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer being spanked
Implement:Cane, Riding Crop, Belt, Other
Pain level:No Limits