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Caring but firm

I have many years of living the DD lifestyle. I believe the role of the HoH is to help his partner become all she can be and to overcome the obstacles of life. That means consequences must become real.

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My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?I don't have sex in public places. I have to take my sub aside to quietly describe exactly what will happen when we are alone.
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?Providing discipline in a private train car.


EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildA few extra pounds
Height5' 11" (180 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Facial HairGoatee
Health ConditionNo special condition
My attractiveness:Attractive


Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
Job TitleSemi retired

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
Our first dateTime to sit with coffee or wine and talk.

Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Dirty talkDepends on my mood

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap
Implement:Hand, Hairbrush, Tawse
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Stinging