Cherished. This is my favorite word in the English language. If one word could describe my goal as a Top, it's that one. I want the woman I spank to feel absolutely adored. As if she could not possibly be cared for any more than at that very moment we've just made things right again.
During her spanking, I want her to know that I always have her best interests at heart. When we're finished, I want her to feel forgiven as I hold her tight and quiet her cries. When the tears have stopped, I want her to feel a sense of safety and to know that I will do ANYTHING to protect her. Even if that means having to protect her from herself.
I want her to feel cherished.
Spanking has many aspects. It's serious. It's painful. It can be draining. It's loving and it's correcting. It's comforting and healing. There's a talk or a lecture. There's exposure and vulnerability. There is spanking and crying. There is a powerful bonding through tender, gentle aftercare. There's no other experience on the planet that could make a young lady run such a gamut of emotion in such a short period of time.
I'm a strong Daddy/Dom who's quite capable of keeping a naughty young lady in place while she's being spanked. You will find me to be kind, intelligent and understanding. I have keen insight into this dynamic. I'm very experienced and have great "radar" regarding a young lady's sounds, reactions and movements. I'll always know when she's had enough and we've made things right again. It's important to me that the experience be beneficial to you. Whether it be alleviating stress, releasing guilt, setting boundaries or providing consequences, I want you to know that you were spanked because you're important, you're cared for and you matter. I want you to have a warm feeling inside that you deserve to feel ....