Let's see, a little about me, first the good stuff, this had always been apart of me, it's built in. I remember doing all the classic spanko stuff from a very young age, looking up the word in dictionaries etc. I've been fortunate enough to meet and play with a lot of good people in this lifestyle since I took that first step meeting someone in real life. I enjoy thinking about power exchange dynamics. I firmly believe that kink is primarily mental. I like discipline, that's nexessary. I also have gotten into rope and other bondage, both for utility and for sensation. I've dabbled in writing in the past, and enjoyed it. I'd say my favorite scene activity is punishment with a single tail whip, but I recognize that most can't handle something like that, so I have a big bag of fun options.
In real life, I'm an attorney. I'm originally from Southern California. I've been fortunate enough to have a solid academic background, good undergrad, Ivy League Law School. I've also worked in Industry and in Education. I moved to DC recently for work, and have lived all over. I enjoy technology, photography, gaming, etc., and absolutely love travel! My personality is very laid back, I'm not a high stress or dramatic person. This also makes me pretty spontaneous, and I'm ok with that! I'd also describe myself as kind and fun, and while some people have mistaken that for a lack of sternness or dominance I don't think the two are incompatible at all.
I'm willing to travel just about anywhere for the right person, and of course can always host at my place!