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I need discipline

I've always been a spanko, since I can remember. I've had a disciplinarian before and loved it, I was the healthiest and happiest I've ever been. But I had to move and life happened so I had to end it and haven't found one since. I'd really like to find a disciplinarian again, someone who will hold me accountable for my behavior and decisions so I can be the best version of myself that I know I can be. I love spanking, it motivates me to be better and do my best. I like the idea of domestic discipline, non-sexual discipline, sexy spankings, dom/sub type spanking, and anything where I can show my obedience and how well I can be trained. I like to know that I've done well, that I earned a pat on the head and a "good job." I'd like a disciplinarian but I am also ok with a dom if it involves domestic discipline and he's strict. (Also I should mention that I just dyed my hair to the silver/white and don't really have any good photos of it yet, so my profile pic is of me like 2 months ago with my natural brown hair)

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What are your cbt preferences?

I prefer:Soft and light, Hard and rough, Make me cry
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?I get too embarassed to have sex in public, what if someone sees!
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?I had a threesome with a married couple in a car at 2 in the morning in the middle of the forest.


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageBritish
Height5' 5" (165 cm)
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorSilver
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureChest
Body ArtNone, Scarred
Bra size34 / 75
Cup sizeF+
My attractiveness:Attractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
Employment StatusWork At Home

Looking For

My perfect matchI'd really like someone I can talk to and have fun with. I'm not really an intimate, cuddly person, but I like to stay close to those I love. I'd like to be by your side on an adventure, connect on a deep level, and have each others backs. I'd like a guy who knows what he wants, and is firm and strong. Somone who is strict and doesn't let things slide who will hold me accountable and make sure I give 110%. I want us to both make eachother the best version of ourselves, to make eachother happy, healthy, and safe.
Our first dateMaybe a cup of coffee so we can get to know eachother? Or we could go to a bdsm club, whichever you're in the mood for.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on bySadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mentor / teacher
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Dacryphilia, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Spanking
Open To Photos & VideosNo
My most pleasurable encounter wasMy first time being spanked by my mentor. I'd never felt so accepted, releaved, forgiven, and safe. It hurt like hell but I'd never felt so washed of my sins before, so loved and forgiven.

Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Night clubs, Strip clubs, Fetish clubs, Adult theaters, Dungeon clubs, Raves, Regular Bars, Adult book stores, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Oral Sex isNot my thing
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Scat, fisting, foot stuff

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
I like to wear:Whatever my mentor/dom/discplinarian decides is appropriate.
Include sex and orgasm:Never
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Bent under the arm
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Plastic Bottles, Newspapers, Shoes, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:No Limits