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Lasso the moon....

I am looking for that very special dominant man who can love me as I am, and love my companionship. I am an old fashioned Christian girl, and a genuine submissive spanko with some little girl kink. I have lived a mostly vanilla life with a lot of frustration and failures. I know that I need to be dominated and controlled with strict but loving support to become a more healthy person, as well as to be a good( obedient), happy (docile), and healthy (low stress) girl! My wish is for a long term relationship, owned and controlled by one monogamous dominant/daddy lover.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
Height163 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionDepression
Bra size36 / 80
Cup sizeDD
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusHomemaker
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleRN

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchFirst, before anything else, he is someone that is a match for me.... not just someone looking for another ass to spank. He will get more than enough real opportunities to spank me.... for real discipline.... and for his own fun and games... if we are meant for a real relationship.

I would expect him to be a strong old-fashioned dad dominant, who has inner strength of will and determination.. and not squeamish about giving a genuine punishment the way they used to be given.

An active Christian is a definite who believes he is meant to be the head of his household and is ready to enforce that.

For fun, I would also like him to have a side of sadistic sexual kink... a dom who would want to frequently play sub games with his little girl and control her with mild to moderate mental, physical, and sexual tortures .. just beyond what she can tolerate.(But if she tries to stop daddy, she will get her bare bottom smacked)
Our first dateI would love a fun, normal date... dinner or a movie. Something lite and fun and no pressure. A traditional chance to get to know each other. Be patient... I doubt it will be very long before I do something naughty..
Age46-55, 56-65
EthnicityNo preference
Body typeNo preference

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, A combination of all
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Physical humiliation, Power exchange, Spanking, Tickling games, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasI was still tied down after a very severe strapping punishment. My partner returned and began to tease and torment me.. playing with my anus... threatening to spank me more... tickling me , and giving my sore bottom more smacks... threatening to give me


FetishesMedical / Enema, Tickling, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkI've never tried it
Night life:Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isNot my thing
Anal sex isLove ass play, but not penetration
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets, All of the above and more!
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Anything that is dangerous, like choking or suffocation. Hitting anywhere other than the butt. Don't force me to perform oral sex...I have too strong a gag reflex. Probably others but don't know them yet.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI think I am somewhat of a spoiled little girl for a daddy dom to take in hand. I also have a curiosity for medical and further anal play.
Fantasy locationAt a park
Fantasy sex partner:An authority figure dom punishing me and fondling me because he can while I am helpless to stop him.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:When I was a child, spankings were always spontaneous and happened on the spot where ever a person happened to be... with the one exception of being dragged out of the Church sanctuary screaming into the narthex... where everyone could hear it anyway. And that was virtually any child and many women too being suddenly spanked bare bottomed in front of whoever happened to be there... None of this "go to your room and I'll come spank you in private.."
In small town Minnesota, the "Golden Age of Spanking" lingered well into the 70s.

I understand that allowances have to be made nowadays for the squeamish public. Sometimes things need to wait until you get home to be dealt with. But I don't like how ritualistic most spanking has become. It's too easy to mentally prepare for ...and resist. I prefer reality based, in the moment spanking... because I have actually done something to anger or annoy my daddy dominant, or HE feels it is what I need right then.. So I'm wearing whatever I'm wearing , that he pulls down to bare me... And the furniture would be just the closest chair or couch for otk. I am curious about Victorian and other era spanking benches that blended in with their regular furniture.

Baby doll nightgowns and innocent dresses might be interesting, paired with fancy split panties underneath.
Hand spanking to start, but followed by a leather paddle, thin wood paddle, martinet, or birch, depending on how bad I was. Even a fly swatter has an unbearable sting.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over the masters lap, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Other
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Pain level:Stinging