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Life needs some spice

On the surface I appear to be very vanilla: an educated, charming Brit with a great accent and a kind heart. I am a little heavyset but people have been nice enough to say I am somewhat handsome.

But what is life without some adventure?Throughout my life I have been fascinated by spanking and I am looking for someone who shares this obsession. I would love to meet a mature woman with whom to enjoy mutual spanking sessions on a discrete basis.

I am also available as a strict disciplinarian for anyone looking for accountability in areas like exercise, weight loss, credit cards and smoking.

Please note my house is in Orange County but I live near Manhattan Beach during the work week. I am not looking for a romantic or sexual relationship. I am looking for someone for which regular spanking sessions would provide discipline, endorphin release and excitement .

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My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?Not my thing
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?A dungeon.....I’ll tell you about it!


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageBritish
Height5' 8" (173 cm)
Eye ColorGrey
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Best featureHair
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Very Thick
My attractiveness:Attractive


Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyAdministrative / Management
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$100,000 - $250,000

Looking For

Must haveEmpathy, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchLooking for the same thing as me
Our first dateGood conversation

Sexual Activities

Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

Sex toys:None of the above

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Hard with hand or implement
Role:I prefer both roles
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
I like to wear:Being tied to a spanking bench can be very exciting
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Handcuffed to bed
Implement:Hand, Cane, Hairbrush, Wooden Spoon
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Heavy Marks