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Southern Gentleman spanker/spankee

I am a 76 year old retired southern gentleman who believes in a very erotic, slow, embarrassing preparation for the spanking. The spanking is always bare bottom over-the-knee and only a hand is used to instill a long lasting sting - not a beating or whipping.

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CBT Preferences

I prefer:Soft and light
Things I enjoy:Squeezing, Weights/Parachutes, Stretching, Stroking
Toys I like to use:Ball stretcher, Parachute, Humbler, Testicle cuffs
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

Ball Busting preferences

How high is your threshold of pain?Intermediate

Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Receiving
How much Strapon can you handle?Average Sized, Short and Thick, Soft and Slow

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:None. Am quite conservative
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:None - Am quite conservative

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height163 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthBald
Facial HairBeard
Best featureSmile
Body ArtNone
Endowment (length)Short
Endowment (width)Thin
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyAdministrative / Management
Employment StatusRetired
Job TitleRetired

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchA lady that knows what she wants and isn't bashful when we get together.
Our first dateQuiet, private place to make sure we are interested in the same fantasy's.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isDominant
I am seekingA mistress
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyCBT (cock & ball torture), Depilation / shaving, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Femdom, Spanking
Open To Photos & VideosNo
My most pleasurable encounter wasA lady that did physical examinations including otk temperature taking, bulb enemas and spankings with corner time.

Fetishes

FetishesMedical / Enema, Other

Sexual Activities

Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

Oral Sex isI want to try it
Anal sex isNever tried it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I'm open to experimenting
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:Just plain every day clothing to start.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee
Implement:Hand
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Stinging

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I relish in regular discipline
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Dominant Nurse Doctor
I like to wear:Casual straight wear
Ideal session:Her being totally in charge and doing everything from preparation for physical exam to removal of clothing to otk treatments.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:This could take hours:
I dream of a meeting where she is a "medical/disciplinarian" that is assigned by a government authority to do humiliating things for an exam such as shave him "down there", take otk rectal temps, administer otk enemas and spanking at same time so when he goes to expel it hurts to sit - sounding, milking, anal probing and on and on.