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Crossdressing

I preferTop / Versatile
Been with a crossdresserNo
Looking for someone passable?Yes
Crossdressing ExperienceNone

Sex Preferences

Use condomsYes, Condoms only
I preferVersatile
DemeanorMasculine
OutStill in the closet
HIV StatusNegative

CBT Preferences

I prefer:Soft and light, Depends on my partner, Hard and rough, Make me cry
Things I enjoy:Slapping, Squeezing, Pinching, Weights/Parachutes, Stroking
Toys I like to use:Ball crusher, Parachute, Humbler, Testicle cuffs
Orgasm during play:Always

Ball Busting preferences

How Long have you practiced Ball Busting?Have not but open to it
How high is your threshold of pain?Intermediate

Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Receiving
How much Strapon can you handle?Average Sized

Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?No public places
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?Boat on lake

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageEnglish
BuildAverage
Height185 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyResearch / Science / Engineering
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$100,000 - $250,000
Job TitleManager

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchInterest in mutual fun

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSwitch
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cross dressing, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Femdom, Genital torture, Hot wax, Physical humiliation, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Verbal humiliation, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesArmpits, Feathers, Lace / Lingerie, Medical / Enema, Panty

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isNever tried it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Pocket pussy, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Blood, scat, needle

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer both roles
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Always
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Newspapers, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I relish in regular discipline
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, Lingerie and stockings, Leather