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I need spanking for a variety of reasons. relaxes me and reduces stress. I know that sounds crazy but if it has been done right, I walk away feeling better (ok my rear hurts) but mentally I'm adjusted.

I also like it for discipline as it keeps me grounded and focused. Being single I have no one to answer to but me....which means I get careless in a lot.

If I had it my way I'd have a TiH relationship with maintenance spanking as often as he felt needed and as when deserved.

Depending on how it is given it can be more or less effective. I know many people will say spanking with implements hurts more. I don't think so. For me, bare handed is worse simply because it is so embarrassing, private and belittling (like a child). Also..because touch makes it more erotic.. especially when the person rubs, carrasses, and feels in between my legs as usually I am wet. It makes the spanking more intense because I am forced to feel the pain in order to feel the pleasure (I am able to detach from pain). I have never cried from a spanking..but came close when it was done bare handed (I was just able to talk and squirm my way out).

Of course the most enjoyed spanking are the ones that happen so fast I didn't know they were coming (sassy mouth can land me in trouble)....

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EthnicityMixed Race
National heritageAmerican
Height5' 7" (170 cm)
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureEyes
Body ArtOther
Health ConditionNo special condition
Cup sizeD
My attractiveness:Attractive


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Thoughtfullness

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA master
I live the lifestyleOnly in the bedroom
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Hair pulling, Power exchange, Spanking, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosNo

Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isI want to try it
Size matterYes, definitely

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Never
Turns me on:Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:Even though most would tell you that Implements hurt more, to me bare handed hurts the worst. I can turn off my pain. But when it is so intimate like the is a mental screwover for me. Being taken by surprise is probably also the most effective because I have no way of preparing mentally.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Bent under the arm, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area
Implement:Hand, Belt
Pain level:No Limits