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"Queer, quirky, and quixotic."
While ideally I'm searching for a lover for my life and nothing more, right now I could easily be persuaded to engage in spanking fun with dominant women or the occasional man. I love being spanked, am a dyed-in-the-wool spanko, and am looking for someone fun, take-charge, and drama-free, who understands that "submissive in the bedroom" doesn't mean I'm going to take life lying down.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height170 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureHair
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Bra size38 / 85
Cup sizeA

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over often
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual incomeup to $25,000

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Flirtatiousness
My perfect match-Intelligent, fun, liberal and loving outside the bedroom.
-Adventurous and a little bit geeky.
-A positive thinker and not addicted to substances or other destructive behaviors.
-Willing to take me over your knee, spank me till I'm crying, and put me back together inside the bedroom.
-Ready to take a chance, and jump into the delightfully mundane, occasionally trying world of "happily ever after" with a pledge to keep the relationship a priority and the spark alive.
Our first dateCoffee or lunch, something casual, to gauge compatibility before taking things any further.

After that? A less traditional sort of afternoon or evening - hiking, going to a dinner show, driving two hours to get to some little dive in another city with the best hummus and baklava this side of the Mississippi....
and hopefully some spanking fun after that.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
I live the lifestyleOnly in the bedroom
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyCandle wax, Cross dressing, Depilation / shaving, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Physical humiliation, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Voyeurism
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasEvery encounter i've had has been pleasurable in its own ways. But as for some guidelines, I love leather, rulers, and small paddles. I love roleplay or spanking talk. I love being spanked on my upper thighs and I love being the center of your world.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Fetish clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isI want to try it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterYes, definitely
"Off Limits":I have very limited experience with guys, and really don't like the male reproductive system, although I suppose Mr. Right might inspire me to learn more. I love toys, eating out other girls, and would really love to find someone ready to explore.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI would love to roleplay a lot of the delicious things mentioned above, and I would really love to scene with two doms punishing me - yum!
Fantasy locationAirplane, Hotel/motel, Hot tub, Library
Fantasy sex partner:I can't tell for fear I would be laughed off the site.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Moderate with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:I would love to be spanked in a schoolgirl uniform sometime. I like the idea of specific "spanking chairs."
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Bent under the arm
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Other