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Need regular discipline in Chicago area

6'3", 290 lbs, 46 y/o, black/gray hair (short), close trimmed beard or goatee. Need regular, non-sexual discipline sessions, hard spanking, bare ass, corner time, heavy micromanaging authoritarian accountability. Tough guy looking for tough, heavy, regular discipline.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageIrish
Height6' 3" (191 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Short
Endowment (width)Average


Relationship StatusIn a relationship
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual incomeup to $25,000

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Boldness, Power
My perfect matchMy perfect match is a spanker/disciplinarian that is no-nonsense and can keep me accountable. He should be able to deal out very heavy punishment.
Our first dateComplete interrogation, set up goals and consequences, heavy spanking and a long time in the corner to think about it all.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mentor / teacher
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Genital torture, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Physical humiliation, Piercing, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Tickling games, Verbal humiliation, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Sexual Activities

Sex isNot that important I'd rather cuddle

Sexual Interests

"Off Limits":Prefer this to be non-sexual.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Hard with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Never
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
I like to wear:I prefer to be naked or at least pants down, and if the spanking is heavy (which it should be), I prefer to be tied down to take it.
Include sex and orgasm:Never
Positions:Over a chair / bed / desk, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area
Implement:Cane, Belt, Other
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:No Limits