I am a 66 year old while divorced (real) dad that raised a son alone on spanking till he was 19 but now is married with his own family living in Texas. I am 6-2, 200 lbs, 34 waist clean shaven and balding with very large experienced hands to spank male butts with. I know that a lot of guys use spankings as a means to have sex, I am rare for I take the spanking ritual seriously and do not not to include sex with spankings. Sex is something you can find anywhere, but a good discrete spanking isn't. I primarily prefer straight or bi men over gay to avoid the sex part of a spanking and only interested in meeting sincere men who are serious about being spanked or spanking another guy. It has only been a year that I became a switch myself to see what it is that the receiver of a spanking gets out of being spanked and was amazingly surprised, but that is it was from someone younger who was married that felt like I did about spankings and we did not incorporate sex into the mix and use it as a male bonding thing. He is the only one that has spanked me so far but I am open to allowing others an opportunity if they are serious about the ritual of the spanking and play by the rules of no marking or bruising and respecting limits and with me just using a hand but I am experience primarily in hand spanking but other impliments as well like paddles, and leather strapper for the more experienced spankee. I belive that a spanking should not necessarily just be about slapping the butt, but also massaging and soothing it in between the slaps to keep the blood vessels from rising and that way a guy can hold out longer for a more severe spanking without any injury, breaking of skin or bruising involved and as a divorced straight guy myself that is important and most of all I talk to the men I spank before I spank them to build their trust before they give over their most precious (ass)et to me to spank. I prefer discrete men over 20 and under 60 that are in fairly decent shape that has a butt for I do not enjoy spanking extremely thin men with no butts whatsoever forI find without the padding on the butt cheeks it is like hitting a board of bones and not what I am looking for. I live alone in Silverlake near downtown Los Angeles where I can host and even have a spanking company where I provide discrete spanking services for men in the entertainment industry and businessmen that want to keep it professional and discrete. Ask me about rates and time if interested in my services and have been doing this successful for over 30 years and you know the longer you do something the better you get at it and above all you should always show respect and finish up with a hug and no regrets. I have found that especially for other straight men, this is something they can do primarily for themselves that they do not have to share with anyone else and this is their time for attention and they love it. I am mile mannered and not into roleplay for we are men and know what we want and should not have to pretend to be a child at 50 to get the same effect for inside of every man is a little boy trying to get out and that little boy inside of the man knows who he is without play acting. I know this is Hollywood, but I believe in leaving acting to the actors and be real about what I do or have done with me.