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Gentleman seeks Elegance

I am an educated gentleman (post graduate) who longs for a small taste of the classic world- where individuals conducted themselves, in public, with calm and decorum. And, where a suit and tie was considered a staple of sophistication. No, I am not stuffy but the occasional "library" conversation over a true cocktail (in addition to "pop" culture) with her are a must.

I enjoy submissive women who are smart, educated and challenging. Submissive does not mean dumb; submissive does not mean that you have abdicated your voice. Submissive is your choice to be led and to be guided and, yes, to be dominated.

Submission is not my only requirement, I desire a loyal woman. If you are loyal to me, I will be loyal to you. It is a delicate line but my goal is that she will ultimately be my best friend.

I am ambitious and as a result I take my work seriously and my woman must understand that .

I love everything about spanking: The prep, the conversation, the bottom as it bounces against the hand, belt or ruler, the increased glow during the spanking and the wiping away of tears while holding the warm bottom after.

I do not include my picture for obvious reasons, where I work and what I am into does not go hand-in-hand.

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Appearance

EthnicityBlack
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height178 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureButt
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyEntertainment / Media
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$100,000 - $250,000
Job TitleO.A.T

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Our first dateWine/Cocktails, Live Music and great conversation.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byDomination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA relationship
I live the lifestyleOnly in the bedroom
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoySpanking
Open To Photos & VideosNo

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkNo thanks
Night life:Night clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isNot my thing
Sex toys:None of the above

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Tears