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Motivation & Discipline From A Fair & Strict Mentor

First off, I seek real life encounters. While i'm willing to converse via E-Mail or Chat for a short time, if you're not serious, pass me by. I'm not here for pretenders, wannabe's or erotic chat. It's not fair to either of us. While I will consider a newbie, I much prefer a lady with spanking experience and a history.

If you've quit or don't smoke, I commend you. But if you don't like it, don't contact me.

I know the following list of "don't wants" is going to rule out some otherwise great contenders, but I have to put it out there. Experience is a great teacher.

1. I can't stand piercings. To me, they're a form of self-mutilation, and I'm not into mutilation. I'm also not fond of tattoos for the same reason, no matter how nice you think they look. Small unobtrusive ones I can live with. If you're a body canvas for the local tattoo shop, you need THAT kind of pain, not the kind I dish out.

2. Sex is not a requirement.

3. I use straight spanking, paddling and whipping techniques coupled with strong adherence to a program of agreed-upon rules. While I can certainly supply the bare bottom spankings dear old Dad used to give you, my main specialty is motivational discipline, which can be substantially harder in its application.

4.You will ALWAYS be spanked bare bottom. Whining, crying and begging, which I do find highly erotic, won't keep your panties up. I will engage in very good aftercare, though. I think that's very important.

5. I believe a spanking should hurt, don't you? If you can't stay in place for your punishment, restraints will be used. Though I will consider a safe word, if I think you're using it to get out of your punishment, you and I will terminate our arrangement.

6. A stubborn woman learns the error of her ways when her bare bottom is being set ablaze.
7. A very stubborn woman learns contriteness even quicker when ALL her clothes are taken from her. If you're modest, you will get over it quickly. I promise.

Failing college? Partying too much? Bitchy? Lacking motivation? My YM ID is Strapmaster_cabmanbxr. Long time disciplinarian has the tools of the trade to put you on the straight and narrow. .

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height5' 10" (178 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
My attractiveness:Average


Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityYour Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyEntertainment / Media
Employment StatusRetired
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
My perfect matchA woman that craves the discipline she never got as a child, or one that misses the discipline she DID get. Prefer someone with a spanking history, to be honest. A woman that desires moderate to very firm bare bottom discipline.
Our first dateGetting to know one another and your spanking preferences, as in why you want to be spanked, then we'll take it from there.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on bySadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA sub
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyTickling games, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasA 33-year-old young lady who never had a Dad, that wanted hard to severe disciplinary spankings. I spanked her lovely bare bottom with a variety of instruments for more than a year.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a year
Sex isNot that important I'd rather cuddle
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Night clubs, Regular Bars, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Anal sex isNever tried it
Sex toys:None of the above
"Off Limits":Scat, urine, kids, cutting, blood. I'm a straight "Ok, young lady, you know why you're here, so get those pants down" type of guy.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyMostly a Daddy-Daughter type of relationship. Taking her to the woodshed or bedroom, making her go get the strap, paddle, hairbrush, flogger or switch, having a young woman that CRAVES moderate to hard bare bottom spankings and whippings.
Fantasy locationTrain, At a park, Kitchen, Hotel/motel, Hot tub, On the beach
Fantasy sex partner:A gorgeous woman, 25-45 that is very submissive, highly educated and successful. I find they know exactly what they're looking for, though I don't require a college degree to spank you.

I'll always consider a lady somewhat older, though I rather like the Dad-Daughter aspect. But I WILL discipline any willing and attractive lady that truly desires it.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Never
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, The Closure / Forgiveness
I like to wear:Just keeping it simple. Make her grab her ankles, or get onto the bed over pillows, ordering her to take her pants down and her crying softly as she does so, maybe ordering her to fetch the implement, scolding her and watching her reactions, watching her bare bottom turn crimson, etc.
Include sex and orgasm:Never
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Other
Pain level:No Limits