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I am looking for others into spanking. What this means depends on you and me - what each of us is seeking from the other. I have delivered (and received) serious, no-nonsense punishment spankings in the past; but the spanking you want may not be so intense, and maybe not even for punishment. Instead, you and I could connect in a more playful, light-hearted, sensitive, just-for-fun way. Taking the experience beyond spanking depends on what each of us wants. I am flexible and open to a possible relationship with the right person. I am open, honest about what I want, and very open-minded trying not to pre-judge anyone. So, please try to do the same. Thanks. James

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildFit
Height178 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureHands
Health ConditionNo problems

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyResearch / Science / Engineering
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleResearch Scientist

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isTop
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Candle wax, Spanking, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesOther

Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyopen to many things

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm
Implement:Hand, Cane, Switch (rod), Birch, Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse