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43 y/o seeking female switch or Spanker for some spanking fun

I have been in the lifestyle for a while and have twenty-five years experience spanking. I consider myself a gentleman. I am a self-published novelist. I like to give as well as receive, so I am looking for like-minded females who feel the same way :) I believe it makes a better spanker out of someone if they receive so they know what it feels like, and it IS a good stress reliever :) When I receive, it is for stress relief and motivational purposes. I love it hard and long. Always punishment spankings and/or blisterings. I am mainly looking for friendships with spankings included. If this interests you, I hope to hear from you. If something happens down the road with a possibility for a more intimate relationship in the future who likes to give and/or receive spankings is fine, but not important.
I enjoy hiking, camping, fishing, going to nice restaurants, sometimes taking in a movie or cuddling in front of a movie here at home. If this interests you, feel free to drop me a line.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height180 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionDiabetes
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyEntertainment / Media
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleSecurity Officer

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchSomeone who enjoys having a good time in and out of the house with a good personality and a good sense of humor. I am also seeking someone who likes to give a hard bare bottom spanking as well as receiving.
Our first dateI'm good with anything really. Therefore it is better to pick something the lady likes to do, and I will do my best to make it a memorable night :)

BDSM Preferences

My role isDominant
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelExpert
I enjoySpanking
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:I don't really care for sex
Sex isNot that important I'd rather cuddle
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkI've never tried it
Night life:Night clubs, Strip clubs, Fetish clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Adult book stores, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Anal sex isNever tried it
Sex toys:None of the above
"Off Limits":I find toilet fetishes extremely disgusting, nor am I into blood play.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI don't have any sexual fantasies. Sex has never really been a big issue on my mind.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Hard with hand or implement
Role:I prefer both roles
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Plastic Bottles, Newspapers, Shoes, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Tears
Pain level:No limits

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I relish in regular discipline
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear