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Sub BDSM bottom looking for Dom top

42, 6', 165-170 lbs, dark blonde / light brown hair, blue eyes. Been into getting spanking since I was 21. Can get into a one time, ongoing, or something more permanent if all parties are in agreement.

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Sex Preferences

Use condomsNo, Bareback only
I preferBottom
DemeanorAverage
OutEveryone knows
HIV StatusPositive

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildSlim
Height183 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Best featureButt
Body ArtStrategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyAdministrative / Management
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Boldness, Spontaneity, Thoughtfulness

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on bySadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isBottom
I am seekingA master
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBondage, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera
My most pleasurable encounter wasWhen in a situation that I trust the dom/top 100% and give over total control to him to make all decisions. In life, sex, etc. I am by no means unintelligent or incapable of making decisions...I just enjoy that be left to someone else.

Fetishes

FetishesExhibitionism, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Gangbang
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Adult theaters, Swapping parties, Dungeon clubs, Raves, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Adult book stores, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":no scat, no covering my mouth & nose...freak out about not being able to breathe

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:Like jockstraps sometimes, can get into leather. Like otk, bed, bench, couch, car hood, etc. tied to any of the fore mentioned.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Heavy Marks