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Older smoothie seeks fresh , squeezable fruit.

I have returned to this site, with apologies for any unanswered messages during my absence. It is clear that the D/s and spanking genie is out of its bottle and won't go back.
I am a safe, sane, experienced, divorced dominant who is slim to medium in build as well as being a competent and imaginative spanker. I am currently single and would like to meet someone as a friend or could be more. Ideally, she would be a person who wants to express and explore her sub/bratty/masochistic side. I am caring with novices and will play to your limits if you are D/s experienced. I am open to a casual/play friendship or something more committed if the chemistry is right. I have taken early retirement from being a head teacher so I am flexible with my time.
Physically, I am of medium build being around 5'8" tall with a 42" chest and 34" waist. Deep brown eyes and fifty shades of greying hair complete the picture. There is no facial photograph posted for professional reasons.
I seek a person who can enjoy sharing time together in both vanilla and kink who is an equal outside agreed areas. She may be interested in the 1950s household or the Taken in Hand dynamic. In all other aspects, I am looking for my equal who shares my “kinks” and sense of sexual adventure. Too much to ask?

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Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:I am not heavily into sex in public areas. On rare occasions when I have done this , it has usually been in an isolated part of the countryside.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageEnglish
BuildAverage
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthNeck length
Facial HairShaved
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
CircumcisedNo
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyEducation / Academic
Employment StatusPart-time
Job TitleConsultant

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchIntelligent and has her own opinions, knows herself and recognises that she enjoys being submissive/ bratty/ little for part of the time.
Our first datea stylish / ambient venue in which we can relax and talk easily and openly.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA relationship
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Dacryphilia, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Physical humiliation, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesOther

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isLove ass play, but not penetration
Sex toys:Clitoral stimulator
Size matterNo, Not at all

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI'm an experienced and enthusiastic spanker!

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Sometimes
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest
Implement:Hand, Cane, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse