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Real Discipline administered in a safe, private setting

I am an educated professional with large strong hands , a big heart, and a touch of class. I can give very hard spankings when the situation warrants, so please be aware that I'm not fooling around. I'm particularly interested in dealing with anyone who feels that she needs to be held accountable for her actions and needs a disciplinarian and mentor. If spanking your bare bottom will make you a better woman then I am your man.

Ultimately, I am looking for an LTR where the man is the head of the household and I provide structure and discipline through the judicious application of spankings and corporal punishment. Until I find that, I am always open to new friends and kindred spirits. I promise to be discreet and so should you.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageIrish
BuildFit
Height188 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Best featureChest
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyResearch / Science / Engineering
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000
Job TitleEngineer

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchNothing relieves stress and loneliness better than really connecting with a kindred spirit. I want you to have a good session with a kind but dominant man who understands and brings out the best in you. Obviously, I love spanking and anything to do with consensual corporal punishment. I want to help you to live out your fantasies and be glad that you did. I also want to hold you accountable and show you how to be a better woman. Submission can and should be incredibly erotic and resplendent and I want you to see that for yourself.
Our first dateA good first date would include a nice dinner in a quiet restaurant, lots of conversation and laughing. Risqué humor and naughty behavior would be a plus. A good spanking later is certainly a good idea if the chemistry is right. I will bring both hands.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isDominant
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoySpanking
Open To Photos & VideosNo
My most pleasurable encounter wasSpanking OTK is my favorite. I'm open to other activities but I love spanking most of all.

Fetishes

FetishesLace / Lingerie, Pantyhose / Stockings

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a month
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Every activity should be between mutually consenting adults. Anything not consensual is always off limits.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyi want to be your Master.

I want you to submit to me and surrender control. Spanking is about letting go and allowing someone else to be in charge. It is about releasing inhibitions and embracing your true self. The pain and tears will be cathartic for you.
Fantasy locationTrain, At a park, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, On the beach, In a taxi cab, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:I am searching for a woman who is much like myself. She is a special lady who is loyal, emotionally mature, spiritual,sensual, adventurous, and affectionate. She likes to have fun. She yearns to be free and open and is eager to try new things. To the rest of the world she may seem a proud and strong lioness, but in private she craves to trust her partner and surrender control. She yearns to be submissive to her one loving and dominant partner and to follow his lead. She wants to transcend the ordinary and live life on her own terms.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Hard with hand or implement
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Never
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, The Closure / Forgiveness
I like to wear:We would have to talk first, but I'm pretty much open to anything. No blood or bathroom activities please.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Gloves, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Response:Pouting / Crying
Pain level:No limits