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Self Spanker looking to branch out

I am one of those that lurked at the fringe of the BDSM community for quite some time before finally determining that isn't quite where I belonged. I've been a self spanker for 7 or 8 years and have become quite skilled with all the practice. However, and here I heave a heavy sigh, no amount of skill shall allow me to swing a cane as effectively as a second party.

I struggle to bond with others. If I am to be honest, in almost all instances I fail to engage at all. I've been burned a few times, but not so badly as to damage. No, I'm mostly disenchanted. I also have a loner's personality. Yet, there is a small part of me that continues to nag that eventually, if I were patient enough, I might just find what I need.

Doubtful though. So, I'm a pain in the ass, and that is all I seek. I'd like a spanking partner that is content within the fetish. Only serious (ly patient) replies and somewhere in the same age range, thanks. He or She (I am straight but with sex eliminated, gender doesn't matter) should be be personable and well spoken. I am greatly deterred if the way you communicate gives the impression you are not my intellectual equal. Sorry. I'd say it's essential you are willing to get to know each other a bit in text. A slow start with a directed cam session is likely better than asking me to coffee. Yes, I think you are scary. Hopefully you aren't offended, Mr Interweb. I have to trust you for this, and that doesn't come easy.

One last warning that I may not be worth the time. But that needy voice won't shut up without a little placation now and then. So it goes.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildA few extra pounds
Height165 cm
Hair LengthWaist length

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Empathy, Boldness, Wit
My perfect matchA creative spanker that thoroughly enjoys the fetish.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Hard with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Bent under the arm, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to something outside in a safe area
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Heavy Marks