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simple, that describes me. i like to have fun & laugh as much, if not more than next person. i believe life should be enjoyed, by any & all. i believe games should be played, not played out. if you're about being miserable & taking everyone else down that road with you, please, just pass me by. if you believe it's easier to test someone to find something out, rather than just asking & taking their word, i have no use for you. see, i've had to change my whole outlook on people the last 10-15 years because, i found i was hurting no one but myself. therefore, i'm going to open myself up & trust people from the start. if i ask you something & you answer me, i'm going to take your word & believe you because, if you ask me something, i'm going to answer you & expect you to take me for mine. isnt that simple? no mind games, nothing to guess about. if i say something, i mean it. i've been through alot, i've hurt about as much as 1 person should be allowed to hurt. in other words, nothing much shocks or amazes me. what that really says is, i've experienced alot. & i have no problem sharing my experiences with anyone. so yes, simple describes me very much.
now, as for why i'm here. i'd love to finally meet someone i can live out the rest of my life with. is that possible, yes. is it likely, maybe. i've acted as a mentor to a handful of young ladies through the years also. my main mantra: keep it simple. do what you can, to try to change the world. but, at same time, do what you're suppose to do. keep your word, be responsible, be nice, kind & respectful. simple things. set goals for yourself, those kinds of things. yet, keep time to have fun & enjoy. reward yourself for accomplishing things. reward, not over-reward, ladies! so, i should'nt have to explain where & how discipline is applied in my life, & yours too. you cross a line, you go across my knee. again, very simple. there doesnt have to be a rulebook, playbook or any other kind of book in living this lifestyle. just, keep it simple.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageIrish
Height185 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureHands
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace

Education & Employment

Employment StatusPart-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchsomeone with sense! this may sound ridiculous & you can stop laughing now but, please, even just a little. it seems people dont think before they do, say or act on something. please, have some sense. otherwise, i'm not greedy. if i had a preference though, i'd rather you not be that much above a few extra pounds. this may sting a few of you but, if you allowed yourself to get into this kind of shape, its going to take work on your part to fix it. i or no other man can change who you are. & thats just too much to put under 1 persons control. i have 1 other "want" in a person: just be yourself. i dont need to be impressed by anyone or anything. we can sit & trade stories anytime. just be you. if you're sweet, just be sweet. if you're 1 who looks out for others before yourself, just live up to that. & you'll come to find out just how discplined my life is, about order & organization. for example, ladies, do you know where your keys are?
Our first datei'll be just as happy sitting somewhere talking, even a park bench. i'll pretty much leave that up to you. just i'd rather it not be a club or bar, or any place else with a bunch of noise. & hopefully for your sake, you wont already have racked up a couple spankings by then.

Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Anal sex isI want to try it
"Off Limits":i'm straight & dont switch. i hope nothing further is needed!

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyi think only thing i've wanted to try, but havent "completed" is anal sex with a woman. by not completed i mean, it hurt her too much, so we left it for another time. & because i'm not 1 to push things, we probably never tried again. otherwise, i've had sex in some pretty interesting places, probably some i may not remember off hand.
Fantasy locationTrain, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Parents house, Dressing room, On the beach, In a taxi cab, Public bathroom
Fantasy sex partner:well, it use to be j-lo. now, i guess it would have to be serena williams. its pretty safe to say, i like meat on my bones.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood
I like to wear:i love women in dresses or skirts to begin with. but dress-up works for me as well.
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Bent under the arm
Implement:Hand, Hairbrush, Shoes, Wooden Spoon, Tawse
Response:Pouting / Crying
Pain level:Stinging