simple, that describes me. i like to have fun & laugh as much, if not more than next person. i believe life should be enjoyed, by any & all. i believe games should be played, not played out. if you're about being miserable & taking everyone else down that road with you, please, just pass me by. if you believe it's easier to test someone to find something out, rather than just asking & taking their word, i have no use for you. see, i've had to change my whole outlook on people the last 10-15 years because, i found i was hurting no one but myself. therefore, i'm going to open myself up & trust people from the start. if i ask you something & you answer me, i'm going to take your word & believe you because, if you ask me something, i'm going to answer you & expect you to take me for mine. isnt that simple? no mind games, nothing to guess about. if i say something, i mean it. i've been through alot, i've hurt about as much as 1 person should be allowed to hurt. in other words, nothing much shocks or amazes me. what that really says is, i've experienced alot. & i have no problem sharing my experiences with anyone. so yes, simple describes me very much.
now, as for why i'm here. i'd love to finally meet someone i can live out the rest of my life with. is that possible, yes. is it likely, maybe. i've acted as a mentor to a handful of young ladies through the years also. my main mantra: keep it simple. do what you can, to try to change the world. but, at same time, do what you're suppose to do. keep your word, be responsible, be nice, kind & respectful. simple things. set goals for yourself, those kinds of things. yet, keep time to have fun & enjoy. reward yourself for accomplishing things. reward, not over-reward, ladies! so, i should'nt have to explain where & how discipline is applied in my life, & yours too. you cross a line, you go across my knee. again, very simple. there doesnt have to be a rulebook, playbook or any other kind of book in living this lifestyle. just, keep it simple.