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Older Gentleman Dom

I am a 72 yr old divorced male, been interested in spanking since late teens. ISO submissive woman who has accepted and embraces her need to be spanked. Must have thought about and accepted her inner need to do as she is told or be spanked. I am not looking for a doormat, but for a strong, independent, self-confident woman who knows that she wants and needs to be spanked to be happy. I am a firm believer in the safe, sane and consensual concept of D/s. I insist on the use of and honoring of safe words. I am looking for a long term spanking D/s relationship. Right now I am in northern Wisconsin. I am retired and live a fairly comfortable life on my pension. If interested contact me

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageIrish
BuildSlender
Height175 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorLight brown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairMoustache
Best featureSmile
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyOther
Employment StatusRetired
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleRetired

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchA woman who has thought about and embraces her need to be submissive and to be spanked. She likes to go out and have fun, socialize, also enjoys at home alone time, cuddling, Likes to go out to eat and likes to eat at home. In other words a down to earth, well adjusted woman who enjoys sex and wants to be spanked. A woman who can be a lady in public and a submissive in private. I am not looking for a door mat but rather a strong, independent woman who wants to be spanked.
Our first dateDinner, conversation, dancing and relaxation. Getting to know each other and hopefully, a desire to meet again.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA sub
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Depilation / shaving, Genital torture, Sensory deprivation, Spanking
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasI was with a woman who want to be totally submissive. When she entered my home she stripped naked, knelt and stated, "I am here to do whatever you desire and I await your command". Without going into details, I'll say, the evening was Fantastic...

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Night clubs, Adult theaters, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Adult book stores, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Anything involving children, feces, permanent bodily harm, drawing blood, knife play, breath play, fire play. Anything that can lead to possible death. Extreme pain.

Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy locationAirplane, Moving car, At a park, Bleachers of a stadium

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
I like to wear:I like my spankee to be dressed as a schoolgirl, or to have a special spanking outfit. I like them to bend over a special spanking stool, my lap on the bed, the end of the bed, the back of a chair or arms of the couch, pillows on the bed, be on all fours or lying on a bed, just to mention a few...
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Light Marks