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I am a switch. I am married, happily so, but sometimes I need to get or give a good spanking or paddling. My wife is not into any of that at all. I grew up in an area and at a time when school paddlings were the normal thing. Everyone got spanked when they were bad. I still crave that kind of thing. I enjoy thinking about, hearing about, listening to, watching, giving and receiving spankings. Paddles and hands are my favorite instruments, but belts are sometimes ok, too.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height175 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Best featureButt
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenTwo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Looking For

My perfect matchAnyone who is really into spanking for spanking's sake.
Our first dateOne (or both) of us getting a reddened bottom.

Sexual Activities

Night life:Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Anal sex isNever tried it
"Off Limits":Really just wanting spanking/paddling play.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyEither I would be a teacher, uncle, boss , etc., and you are a naughty girl who is need of punishment. You come into my office,classroom,etc. and sit down. We talk about your offense and then I decide on your punishment. I would probably give you some input into this, also. Once decided I would instruct you to assume whatever position we decided on, remove any clothes necessary and then I would give you a good hard punishment. The intensity is up to you, but you should at least end up with a nice red rump. The other fantasy would have roles reversed. I would get 5 swats on my jeans with a paddle, followed by three swats on my underwear, followed by an otk spanking. At the end of either situation a good light bottom rub and a cuddle would be nice, although sometimes it is also good to get spanked and then sent sternly away. Really, as long as it involves spanking,/paddling I am probably ok with it. It MUST be
discrete, however.
Fantasy sex partner:A woman/girl who is a switch. Someone who wants a good spanking sometimes, and other times wants to give one. Someone who is not looking for anything further relationship-wise. Just spanking partners and friends.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer both roles
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Bent under the arm, Other
Implement:Hand, Belt, Other
Response:Pouting / Crying