A laid back nice guy and nerd or geek, never did figure out the difference. Anyway, I do things at my own pace and I'm not in a hurry very often. The same for spanking and all that other good stuff, I enjoy the little moments, but I am a somewhat big pervert. What do I enjoy most of all you may be wondering? I enjoy giving pleasure, I'm a giver so I'm not a very good domm. What I think makes me unique, at least to me anyway, is that if my partner is having a good time then so will I, but when it comes to spankings I will say this. When I say, "Pants off." Then I'm ready to go and not in a waiting mood. Anyway I hope you give me a chance and don't be shy!