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swm SKS Good Woman who spanks

Upbeat, creative, intellectual, compassionate, nurturing and kind, considered handsome by many, but not by all, and I am within healthy weight and fitness borders, and lead a healthier than average lifestyle.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageEnglish
BuildAverage
Height175 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants to RelocateYes

Looking For

My perfect matchYou will know if you are at all interested within the next couple of sentences. But I will write more, for those who are curious to know more.


What I need in life is a woman of good character and nurturing ways, who is intrigued by the potential in a spanking centered female led relationship for the long term, where all disciplinary matters are at her discretion, not mine.


It has only taken me some 40 years to admit that and place the following ad.


Bottom Seeks Lessons Learned Under Titania's Magic Wand

While my favorite scene in Shakespeare is Titania and Bottom, I do not seek a fairy queen, but a real woman with a tendency toward romance and language, yet one who is not without her ability to enchant, and quite capable of taking me in hand and leading me through the birch grove and a new direction.

I am a grown, attractive, capable man of talent and inellect, with a boyish streak that is not some artificial role, but who I really am.

I am drawn to women of strong spirit and traditional femininity, with a keen, open mind; nurturing maternal instincts; and a disciplined body that does what she tells it, who wants a LTR where she disciplines my body until it does what she tells it.

Perhaps she is as new to exploring and experiencing such things in real life as I am, and ready to make it reality.


Perhaps she has been honing her wisdom and dominant expertise for many years, and is ready to mold me into her ideal significant other - even if no one among our families and friends knows our new-found relationship is based upon her life-long proclivity for traditional, no-nonsense spanking.


Years ago, in a moment of weakness, I was looking at personal ads from such women. The one who said, "I've never been wet where I didn't feel the boy responsible deserved punished for it somehow." has stayed with me ever since.

Almost as if she is still out there, calmly waiting for this shy, tenderhearted boy with the incurably dirty mind to FINALLY emerge from the shadows of the closet where he has been hiding for 40 years, and take steps toward the firm hand of the loving Ma'am who will pull him across the threshold that leads to the straight back chair and a new life from which there will be no return. Hopefully

Happily/dreadfully ever after.



WHO I AM


From the Midwest originally. Pretty main stream by NYC standards, progressive socially/politically, but much more traditional and old fashion in my personal ways and means.


I am not "a sub" nor submissive in my daily life and lifestyle, and no one who knows me well would suspect I would ever place such an ad.


I am a lamb in the dark.


I am modeling clay.


I am romantic by nature and prone to crushes. And I want to have a crush on the woman who finally liberates the boy from a very lonely place and makes me her own.
Our first dateJust a place where we can talk and get to know one another better as people. While having thought about such things for a long, long time, I think I am ready to take the step to meet someone who will actually take me through the experience. I have never related to the concept of "playing" and am not scene oriented. But I now realize that might help me see if this really is for me, before I think about long term relationships that contain this. Although, I am almost afraid that it really is my destiny.

Sexual Activities

Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Hard with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Turns me on:Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk
Implement:Hand, Cane, Switch (rod), Birch, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse