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Damsel in distress....

Thank you to everyone who has been so patient with me! I am still looking for the perfect blend for me...erotic spanking, flogging, medium hard spankings if I've been very bad. I like at least light markings, up to red and light purple. I have paddles and a strap, but I would like to experience having a belt used. I prefer to be tied face down on the bed with pillows under my hips to raise my bottom high off the bed.

I am looking for a friend that may lead to a relationship or ltr.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildHeavyset
Height165 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
Bra size44 / 100
Cup sizeDD
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenOne
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityYour Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusWork At Home
Job TitleMedical Transcriptionist.

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchIs this where the cliches start? I am searching for the man who can be my equal in public (on most occasions, at least) and disciplines me in the bedroom (sometimes in public...will tell you later). I love to be dominated and spanked, mixed with some vanilla thrown in.
Our first dateFun! And the chance to talk and get to know someone. Putt putt, bowling, playing pool, an arcade, Coney Island. Restaurants are nice.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA master
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Collar & lead / leash, Hair pulling, Spanking
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasIt doesn't give me enough room to type it! I will tell you if you ask...nicely

Fetishes

FetishesLace / Lingerie, Pantyhose / Stockings, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/M/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Strip clubs, Adult book stores, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Children, animals, blood, urine, feces, piercing.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyOne of my favorite fantasies is to be told where to meet my companion, and to be wearing a plug when I get there. He greets me, then takes me to a secluded area to see if I followed his instructions. He pulls my slacks down (or my skirt up), then brings my panties down to my ankles and tells me to spread my legs so he can see. After toying with the plug, he allows me to fix my clothing and we go to dinner. During dinner, he tells me that naughty girls who misbehave have to wear plugs in their bottoms while they are being spanked bare bottom, then sodomized hard to learn their lesson. He warns me that he is in no way joking. After dinner, we decide to go to a movie. Again, he takes me to a secluded place, pulls my slacks and panties down, spreads my legs, and bends me over. I didn't know this, but he has brought plugs of different sizes and lube with him. He removes the one in my ass, then lubes a larger one and starts to push it in. When I wriggle away, he slaps my ass hard, then chooses an even larger plug, telling me that I have earned a spanking when we get home for trying to move away. Holding me in place with his hand on my back, he pushes the larger plug deep into me despite my protests. I pull my panties and slacks back up. We go to the movie and when I squirm, he threatens to take me to the bathroom and spank me with his belt. After the movie, we go back to his place. In the bedroom, he tells me to remove everything except my bra and panties. He sits on the edge of the bed and I stand in front of him. He pulls my breasts from the cups of my bra and attaches nipple clamps. Then, he tells me to lay over his lap. He drags my panties slowly down to expose my bottom. He is pleased that I followed his instructions, but was somewhat upset by my squirming. He starts to spank me with his hand, then a paddle. I am kicking and crying, but he doesn't stop. I was a bad girl. I misbehaved. That's why he had to use the larger plug. That is why I am being spanked. He is spanking me to help me learn from my mistakes. He tells me to stand up. He places some pillows in a mound on the bed and tells me to lay over them with my ass in the air. I hear him take his belt off, and unconsciously tighten my bottom. The first time the belt lands, I hiss at the sting. He keeps spanking me, telling me it is for my own good. Then he switches to using paddles. I am crying, begging him to stop! But he keeps on. Finally, he is finished. I feel him grab my ankles and cuff them together tightly. Then, he ties my knees together. I cannot separate my legs at all. I feel him climb onto the bed and straddle my legs. He pulls my hands behind my back and cuffs them. He explains that the last part of my behavior is to be sodomized hard. If I scream, he will gag me with my own panties. I feel him spread my bruised cheeks and drizzle a little lube on me. Then I feel the head of his cock pushing into my bottom. He is not gentle. It's tighter and harder because my legs are bound. This does not impede him. With one brutal push, he is inside me. I cannot help but scream. Still deep inside me, he leans forward and grabs my hair with one hand and pulls my head up. He uses his other hand to cram my panties in my mouth. I am helpless, completely under his control. He slides out, then rams in again. He leans down again, still up to his balls in my ass, and whispers in my ear: "Naughty girls have to wear plugs in their bottoms, be spanked until their bottoms are bruised, then take cock in their ass."
Fantasy locationTrain, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Dressing room, Library, In a taxi cab, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:Is this where I'm supposed to say "Tall, dark, and handsome"? Seriously. Awesome eyes and smile, cute butt, big hands (see previous experience), a good size penis, open to trying new things, able to openly communicate what they want/need/looking for. I'm a true hedonist, and I love pleasing my partner so I'm looking for someone who feels the same way. I also would like to find someone who has a spanking bench and other dungoen furniture. I love to be tied up and spanked!

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:I do have a spanking skirt (which I love!), I enjoy the sensation of feeling my slacks and panties pulled down and pulled over someone's lap (or being told to bend over something). I have only had a belt used a few times, so I really, really want to try that. I have paddles and a strap that I like. I would love to be fastened to a spanking bench. I have considered going to a certain type of club (if I can find one, and find the right person to take me) and being spanked in public.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Other
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Response:Tears
Pain level:Light Marks