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I am fun and completely uninhibited. Just look over my pics -- many more (the "Invisible Dom" series) are coming, very soon. I'll play with you anyway you like - Role play, whatever. AND I have fresh ideas about how to use spanking as a catharsis, a therapy - I talk about this below.
I will begin our time together by massaging your feet - I studied reflexology and know how to stimulate the different areas of the body by touching/rubbing the different areas of the sole - you will find this enhances the spanking experience. If after the spanking you feel open to intimacy with me, I will go back to your feet first and wake up more areas of your body.

YOUR SPANKING: Of course, I AM HAPPY TO GIVE YOU A DELICIOUS SPANKING. I am very kind and attentive, taking you to any level you want. I have several years experience giving and receiving, so I understand what it is like on the receiving end (bottom) and how to be aware (as a top) where the bottom is emotionally. That is where I developed the process described below and realized that spanking could be used as an instant therapy!

THE SPECIAL SPANKING THERAPY: I want the chance to take your pain away, lady. This is the way it works: you let all the bad feelings - anger, hurt, fear, tears, frustration - that the guys in your past caused - to drive the intensity of the spanking you give me, transferring the hurt inside you to the skin of my butt cheeks. I'll be the proxy guy that you wish you could have got back at, to give him a spanking... Transferring the hurt inside you to my skin will allow you to drop the baggage of pain you've been carrying around but could never release....I want you to let it all out and give your hurt to me. Every woman that I have done this with told me that she indeed felt the old baggage depart and she felt lighter and better. Let this guy take the hurt from you! Why does this work? Taking physical action driven by the hurtful emotions you have inside, by sending that anger and frustration to drive the swing of your arm, and the contact of your hand with my body allows the hurt inside to flow from you to my body, and you give a little of it away with each spank. When you work with me, I let you continue the spanking as long as you still feel the hurt inside! JUST ONE SESSION WITH ME AND YOU WILL HAVE FREEDOM FROM THAT BAGGAGE YOU COULD NOT PUT DOWN TILL NOW. This is a totally unique experience, NOBODY ELSE does this...I invented this process 7 years ago. When we're done, I promise you, you will be amazed and liberated!

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageEnglish
BuildA few extra pounds
Height178 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Best featureButt
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyResearch / Science / Engineering
Employment StatusRetired
Job TitleNeurophysics Researcher

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchA lady who will switch with me - so I can give her the pain & pleasure experience as much as she wants; and will use my body to take away her stress with emotion-driven spanking...and will tell me exactly what she wants sexually.
Our first dateSpanking for either of us or both; and talking openly about how it was. My pain threshold is very high; I find that I am erotically stimulated by the physical contact with her hand and my butt, and become emotionally vulnerable. There would be no better time for her to engage me sexually.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/M/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isLove ass play, but not penetration
Sex toys:Anal beads, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Pocket pussy, Vibrating panties, None of the above
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Anal penetration by a guy with me. You can use fingers or smaller (appropriate) instruments if you want to stimulate me through the anus.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyA lady who understands how this process can help her and how willing I am to let her de-stress. I have written a couple of VERY fun stories about this that I have written that I want to read aloud to you.
Fantasy locationAirplane, Train, At a park, Bleachers of a stadium, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Movie theatre, Parents house, Dressing room, On the beach, My office, In a church, Library
Fantasy sex partner:A lady who lets me know that she has been having a very rough day, and knows that I am willing to let her paint her rage on my body with her hand, so she just drags me off to the couch and unloads her frustration on my willing body. Afterward, we have amazing sex.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Fantasy Role Playing
Role:I'm open to experimenting
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:For our spanking session, I like to use a shirt with a very short spandex skirt, with nothing underneath. The skirt will stay in whatever position you place it (up, down). That way you get to decide during the spanking session when my hairless buns will become bare.
I also have black spandex/hose "pants" which can be rolled down a centimeter at a time to change up where skin is covered or bare; this black hose can be rolled all the way down the legs to any position; from the knees on down, it's pretty much like "leg-cuffs", keeping me from escape!
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over the masters lap, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Rulers / Martinet, Shoes, Other
Response:Laughing, Joking, Pleasurable Moans
Pain level:Stinging