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Gramma's naughty because no one will spank her! :p

A very independent woman that enjoys sensual spankings and a bit of rough play but looking for someone who is also a disciplinarian when necessary. I am not submissive in day to day activities unless they are of the sensual/sexual nature! :) I am a flirt and a tease. I may correspond with you (and altho I'm very real about what I'm seeking) to pass time while I'm looking but I may not ever meet you. I am not a real patient person but I have learned to become patient when dealing with people online so I rarely meet quickly. I follow my gut instinct and rarely is it wrong. While I've always been very selective, it is more important now because of what I seek. I'm not looking for multiple spankers, just one who understands me and is willing to invest the time to provide what I need. I can be sexually dominant/assertive but I find my comfort and pleasure is the submissive role...I receive pleasure from giving whatever pleasure he wants. I'm retired military, well traveled, cultured and am comfortable among most groups of people. After much thought, I think I'd thrive in a DD relationship because I need an imposed structure/routine.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildSlender
Height163 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureSmile
Body ArtBelly button ring, Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo
Bra size34 / 75
Cup sizeDD
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyMilitary
Employment StatusRetired
Job Titleyour naughty gal

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchAn Alpha man, mid-40s and older with a youthful spirit that still lets his inner child out to play. He loves music, traveling and spontaneity. He will hold me accountable for my actions and lovingly take matters into his own hands (no pun intended)!
Our first dateChemistry driven activities...whatever that may be. An audition perhaps.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSwitch
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage, Hair pulling, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism
Open To Photos & VideosNo

Fetishes

FetishesExhibitionism, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a year
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Group sex no swapping
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Strip clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":anything not mutually agreed upon

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI have a couple or so left but I will share them with whomever gains the trust to know.
Fantasy locationAirplane, Train, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Bleachers of a stadium
Fantasy sex partner:Luke Bryan, Charlie Hunnam, Sam Elliott, Johnny Depp, The Walberg and Baldwin brothers...

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Assume the Position, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:I like to be told what to wear. I would love to experience being spanked while draped over and restrained to a spanking bench.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Other
Implement:Hand, Belt, Other
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Light Marks