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Looking for the right sub

I am a DOM looking for a sub not any sub but one who knows the true meaning of a D/s relationship. For the sub she must be very self-confident, have high self-esteem knows what she wants, be able to commutate well and trusting.

The DOM needs to understand that the sub is putting all her trust into his hands and that is a very big responsibility. He must commutate, show his sub the he is open to her needs and not just his. The sub in many ways have more power than the Dom.

Most people think just the opposite of the D/s relationship. That the sub has no self-esteem, no self-confidence and the only way for her to get a man is by being a sub. That is a slut or a sex slave. I would never treat you as either. A brow beaten woman is not a sub. I may tell you what to do but most likely we already talked about or just pushing the envelope a bit more. Never be mean or mistreat you in anyway.

Also a D/s relationship is not just about sex. It is a way of live for both the Dom and sub. It’s about open commutation, trust on both sides and love too. The Dom must know what the sub wants and she must trust him.

I do think that the D/s live style is not for everyone and we may both agree in general terms want goes into a D/s relationship, but we still may not be right for each other.

Let’s meet for a drink, lunch, and open honest, non-judgmental conversation. No pressure and no expatiations.

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